You're in customer service

Dont be a bitch.

It's easy to let the positive attention you get from your fans, go to your head.

It's also easy to forget that you're in customer service You're not at a bar, where you can have your pick of guys.

You can get away with being dismissive to guys hitting on you, that you don't find attractive when you're out at the bar.

OnlyFans isn't the bar. Unlike the bar, online you want as many people to find you attractive and desirable as possible.

When you're out with your friends, you only want the people you find attractive hitting on you, and that's completely normal.

Sometimes it can be hard to turn that off when you're online and receiving message after message from people you might not find appealing.

These individuals are reaching out because they can't find someone in real life, so they turn to the internet to get the next best thing to a real relationship. Which is an online connection.

That's your job. Be the fantasy. In real life, the attractive guy is going to get the girl pretty much every time. They're much less likely to turn to the internet to pay for content.

The attractive guy is used to getting attention for free, so he isn't willing to spend as much money as someone less attractive.

If you have 10 messages in your DMs and 9 of them are from people you wouldn't consider attractive, and one of them is from someone you would love to fuck in real life, there's a good chance you'll pay more attention to that one person than the others.

This will cost you money. Chances are the attractive person will expect to spend very little and get a lot for it. That's how it's been for them their whole life.

The other nine people fully expect to pay top dollar for your attention.

If you were waiting tables and were rude to customers, you wouldn't expect much of a tip, would you?

So why would you expect to make any money off people you're not willing to engage with?

You are in customer service, and whoever is spending the most money is who you need to pay the most attention to.

You will constantly have people in your DMs telling you how beautiful you are, how sexy you are, and how they would do this and that for you if you were with them in real life.

This will be an ego boost. Don't let it go to your head. When you receive compliments, it's okay for them make you feel good.

You need to understand these situations are opportunities for you to make money.

But you won't make any money if you think potential customers owe you compliments and owe you their business just because you're "so attractive".

They are giving you compliments because they want you to pay attention to them.

A guy trying to pick up a girl in a bar will essentially run the same game trying to get attention from a girl on OnlyFans.

The difference is, on OnlyFans, it comes with a price, and that's implied.

So use that to your advantage. Don't be afraid to give them compliments back. After they spend money with you, thank them.

Back to the waiting tables analogy. If you go out to eat and the food is good but the service is poor and the person waiting on you was unfriendly, how likely are you to go back?

Not nearly as likely as if the service was good and the person waiting on you was friendly.

So, even if your content is good but the interaction was awful, customers are likely to find another creator to spend money with. Remember, they want to spend money.

They can get all the free content they want online. They are willing to spend money because they are looking for more than just something to enjoy. They are paying for the interaction as well.

And that's what every online content creator has to offer over free content. A personal experience for the customer.

As I said, don't be a bitch.

The only thing better than content is content with a good attitude.

Having a positive and engaging demeanor can enhance the experience for your audience and encourage them to return.

People are drawn to not only the product but also the personality behind it.

By fostering a welcoming and appreciative environment, you can build a loyal fan base that values both your content and the personal connection you offer.

Remember, your attitude can significantly impact your success in the online content creation world.